Judging by how things go at my kids' school, it's quite the opposite. I and several of my friends have neurodivergent kids. The kids are quite open about it at school, and generally don't pathologize it at all. It's a huge difference from the traumatic childhood I experienced, where I was undiagnosed and also openly bullied for being a little bit weird.

If I may get a bit direct, if you believe that the move toward classifying some things as spectrum disorders, and neurodiversity in general, is about pathologizing the range of human behavior, I'd encourage you to spend some more time looking into it.