> Being a neurodiverse, or more commonly known "on the spectrum", is a guaranteed way to get bullied (or worse) by your peers who are not.

Is it? Hardly. I have been diagnosed, but was never bullied. I don't bully my neurodiverse peers, and I think new generations are, in some cases, more kind than our predecessors in this particular area.

I think unkindness towards neurodiversity is a particular facet of particular societies, and not a general aspect of the human organism.