Debate can be fun (for some) as a game, and force you to articulate your position well, and you can learn from it. But there are different modes of engagement which are often much more helpful.
What people often don't realize is that winning a debate doesn't necessarily mean you side with the truth. A debate is aimed at winning on your existing opinions and the other losing. It is not aimed at discovery, validation or learning. Victory is more important than truth, and a lot of 'good moves' in a debate actually bring you further away from the truth.
If you engage in a conversation where you are both curious and submit to what's true (whatever that means), this conversation will rarely be a debate.
If a debate is in public between skilled debaters who show sportsmanship, then I think the public can gain a lot because a debate forces you to be very on point.
> A debate is aimed at winning on your existing opinions and the other losing.
That's true of the sort of debate that's practiced competitively by "debating teams", but I don't think it's always true of debate as the word is used in an everyday context. A debate can also be more like a dialectic.
That's the problem with how we see a debate. It's just about that. There's no need to present your position in a compelling way or find common grounds with whoever you're debating.
If you read any books by professional negotiators - you'll notice that they conduct themselves very differently than you would in a debate.
Getting to Yes and Getting Past No have been eye opening to me. I no longer feel like I even need to "win an argument".
> the public can gain a lot because a debate forces you to be very on point
I recall reading some articles stating, that debates fail to convince anyone of anything. Public debates only encourage tribalism, IMO. If you watch a presidential debate - no amount of "winning" changed people's opinions.
I can even argue, that just hearing "X won the debate" will cause more impact; compared to listening to them.
What people often don't realize is that winning a debate doesn't necessarily mean you side with the truth. A debate is aimed at winning on your existing opinions and the other losing. It is not aimed at discovery, validation or learning. Victory is more important than truth, and a lot of 'good moves' in a debate actually bring you further away from the truth.
If you engage in a conversation where you are both curious and submit to what's true (whatever that means), this conversation will rarely be a debate.
If a debate is in public between skilled debaters who show sportsmanship, then I think the public can gain a lot because a debate forces you to be very on point.