Why conflate standup with a social checkin? Why not have a pre-lunch time to hang out and shoot the shit, instead of cramming it in as an ad hoc part of "the process" of standup?
Put your details, questions, concerns, etc in text, where anyone can read it any time they like, and make "social hour" something related to being a better teammate on an interpersonal level, instead of a mandatory part of the process.
Put your details, questions, concerns, etc in text, where anyone can read it any time they like, and make "social hour" something related to being a better teammate on an interpersonal level, instead of a mandatory part of the process.